It's the time of year where kids are creating their "wish lists" for holiday gifts.
We all have these "crazy ideas" floating around in our heads. I hear them all the time from people. Some of them are fantasies.
Write them all down.
I want to........
Now, use a fact checking tool that I learned from Kay Adams.
Ask yourself,
If I could really have this, would I take it?
Sometimes, the answer is no.
(It's something you wish for but are not willing to work for).
But if the answer is really yes -
Then re-write it in the present tense.
I am choosing to ....
Notice the difference and give yourself permission to take a tiny step in that direction. (They probably started with twenty champagne glasses, right?)
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